Dr Paul Dobransky – Depresculinity

Dr Paul Dobransky – Depresculinity

We Just Finished the Men’s Depresculinity Mastery Training Last Month (You Can See the Trailer Below)

– and Now It’s Ready for Order as a CD/DVD Program!

The Wasteland

These times were challenging, where the hero doubts himself, is on the losing end of his quest, and is very uncertain about what to do to overcome the setback, or how things will turn out.

If you’ve ever wondered about this and what to call it, chances are you were suffering from a hit to both your self-esteem – felt sad or angry or fearful – and ALSO felt a hit to your very sense of masculinity itself. Your identity as a man who feels solidly on his own two feet.

That’s what I’m calling Depresculinity, and there’s no medicine for it (because it’s about your specific social and career challenges, not a clinical set of symptoms.)

There’s no routine advice about it that applies to everyone in a cookie-cutter way (it does not apply to women.)
Depresculinity needs to be recognized for what it is – something that happens in the actual narrative story of your life, and which one could say takes specific masculine skills and competence – male life lessons – with which to overcome it.

These are the type of skills and lessons that a father might deliver.

Like the material in the Mature Masculine Power Program, it has to do with initiation into being a man, and with your sense of mastering those skills socially, vocationally, and personally that one could say are specific to men only.
Let’s look a little more closely at what’s at work, and what’s at stake in this situation we are calling, “Depresculinity…”

Depression

Depression is quite well-known of course in terms of what causes it, cures it, or at least tries to, but that’s not what we are talking about here. For that, go to a local professional. Instead, we are talking about a vague sense that something isn’t quite working for you, that you feel like you could be more vigorous, vital, and excited about who you are, and that feeling you sense to be something only men in the same shoes share with you.

If you looked to your emotions, you might feel a bit sad, and perhaps also just  abit worried or concerned, but not enough so as to feel that you need to take off work – there are bills to pay after all.  Not enough that you stop socializing or talking to friends – they actually make you feel quite a bit better, at least when you are around them in person.

This experience of sadness and of worry or fear are looked at in great detail in the Anger Map and Anxiety Map of the MindOS Mastery Program.

In there, you find that it’s self-esteem we are talking about – what I define as both a sense of well-being, and of confidence in equal measures. Yet you know well that walking around with poor self-esteem is not necessarily something that can get labelled an out-and-out DEPRESSION.
It’s not THAT severe a problem emotionally, but you just sense that it DOES impact your life, your performance, both in terms of women and work.

And that’s where what I call the “Equation of Masculinity” walks in…

Masculinity

Masculinity is a word you have certainly heard, and always kind of knew what it meant, at least in general. A kind of energy, or vitality, but also something to do with your sense of identity as a man. You know that it is a good thing for a man to have, and feels terrible when diminished, or otherwise “cut off from” being available in you at the ready.

We actually try to go far more into PRECISELY defining it, breaking it into its working parts, showing how they interconnect and support the other components of it, and revolutionize the power and effectiveness of your life – in the Mature Masculine Power Program.

However you have defined the word in the past, or if you’ve never bothered, it has something to do with this equation:

Masculinity = Skill With Women + Progress on a Career Mission

There it is, right from the MMP training program.

There is a LOT built into this equation even though it looks like a simple thing. I said, “simple,” not “simplistic.”

When you have learned something new about women, or appealed to them more than before, it feels pretty good, doesn’t it?  You might even say it feels GREAT.  In fact, it’s beyond great – it feels like being completely alive, completely passionate about life – much like falling in love.

Likewise, when you make progress in your career – something major, like a raise, a new job more attuned to who you are, or even something minor and subtle (a bigger office, a title just a bit more like what you always wanted to grow up to be when you were a boy, it feels good, right?

No, beyond good. It’s great!  No, it feels like “really living,” like being ALIVE, feeling passionate about life itself. It’s good to be alive.

It turns out that all the things we know as masculine are also built in here – a sense of leadership and territory, an ambition to WIN in competition, a need to be on a team all striving for the same goal. They are here too.

It’s just that “winning” a game of checkers, or “owning” your half of a shared bathroom as a roommate, or being on a knitting “team” don’t carry anywhere near as “OOMPH” as “winning” a new job, or “winning over” the woman you have liked for months, “owning” your first house or the business you run, or being out with other single friends meeting women, or a sports team that just won the regional community hockey championship.

Now THOSE get you feeling ALIVE and full of passion for life.

Clearly, the variables in the equation matter – those specific variables. While competition, territory, rank, teamwork, and leadership are all part of being a man, what they are applied to makes all the difference in terms of feeling what we mean by this word, “passion.”

Passionless

What does it mean to feel the opposite flavor of this word, “passion?”

If you re-read the section above, you’ll see that it is one in the same as feeling not only a bit “less than alive,” but less MASCULINE, or in touch with and in command of “masculinity.”

And that is what I mean by Depresculinity – feeling less alive as a man, less vital, less passionate for life as you know or wish you could be.

Certainly the word, “passion” has pertained to the area of romance, and everything you could ever want to know about romance, romantic passion, attraction, dating, courtship, relationships, marriage and the minds of women are spoken to in the men’s training course called the Omega Male Program.

Yet notice how the word, “passion” is also about the experience of just being alive, vitality itself – which is to say more than just “surviving” or “getting by.”  It’s about “being the man,” being the best you can be, or headed in that direction.

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Fathers Help Sons Feel Alive

For many men, there is a connection to their fathers here, to mentorship with them, to learning skills and competence from them (or not), and ultimately a sense of the passion of “aliveness” in the activities you have chosen as your vocation (just as your father once had to do, and his father, and his father…)

You get a sense of belonging to a heritage in this way as a man – through your career choice and the involvement (or not) of your father and a whole lineage of men, in that

When you are cut off from that heritage, that lineage, that ancestral “team” in the way we have been today, there is an ennui, a loss of passion, and by extension, a diminished access to the masculinity that you want in your being.

In past times, there were initiation rituals for example which memorialized this “passing of the torch” to you, all of which we address in the Mature Masculine Power Program.

See these subtle things – a reduction of self-esteem, which may not be out and out clinical depression, yet is nevertheless NOT HAPPY – and a reduction in your access, cultivation, and strengthening of your own level of masculinity… a CUT-DOWN of it occurring in the areas of WOMEN and or WORK…

…And you have a recipe for the felt sense of Depresculinity.

Something to Start Doing About It

One of the most common problems in personal growth is that you have a sense that something’s wrong, you know ought to or wish you could DO something about it, but when it got right down to the matter, you really didn’t know WHAT was wrong, or therefore HOW to do something to fix it.

It would take labelling the thing in order to know what to even call it, and then breaking it down into its parts to actually DO something about it.

Regardless, if you were to look at a period of your life, either right now, or from the past, when you didn’t feel so good about how things were going, you could take a try at learning something new here:

You were not in a situation where you couldn’t manage to go to work, or socialize, or spend time with friends (for that, it’s good to get local, professional help), but instead it was just rather a feeling that things were not so great, and you just knew there was something more for you. You just weren’t sure what it was…

In Depresculinity, there’s a vague sense of not feeling as vital as you could, and perhaps you didn’t know where to start.
Start with these – and if you haven’t already, you’ll find them in a combo of the MindOS Mastery , Omega Male , and Mature Masculine Power Programs :

1. Well-being: There are needs not met in life, and you feel hungry in a way. You want more of your needs met. Define what they are.
   2. Confidence: There are fears you have, and you haven’t addressed or faced them head-on. Define what they are.
   3.   Skill with Women: There are skills to build here, whether in approaching women for dates, communicating effectively, knowing what the right kind of woman is for you, or perhaps you’re even in a relationship and don’t feel like “the man” in it. Define these.
   4.   Progress on Career Mission: There are challenges you haven’t managed to rise to, obstacles to overcome, bars to reach, or victories to win. You sense that there are skills and resources to build to be more fit to make that happen. Define these.

Get Started NOW

If you don’t have the time, then you don’t have to do this. At least you’ve achieved clarity on WHAT causes the “Depresculinity” feeling – this not-so-good experience.

Yet if you have had ENOUGH of not feeling the most vitality you could feel, being vaguely down or in a rut, and somewhere inside suspect that being a man could offer so much more for you…

…then it’s time to master every detail of this hidden male-only depression called Depresculinity , be sure to attend a live event or get the disc course called Depresculinity .

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